Life isn’t fair! If it were, we would all be free from disease while being at the perfect weight and height with skills and abilities that would allow us to become scientists, musicians, professional athletes, actors, and actresses.
However to my knowledge, there has never been a human being who had the opportunity of choice prior to birth. So what’s important about life is how we choose to respond. We can choose to react or choose to be proactive. The choice is ours.
If we choose the latter, then we can focus on what we want in our lives rather than focusing on what we don’t want. It isn’t easy. If it were, then everyone would be living their lives on purpose.